After we worked for a little while longer, the lady in charge of the event came over to us and started talking to us, we found out that she had lived in the states for 23 years and she spoke good English. She told us about the challenges that she has as head of the parents organization at the school. A little bit of background on this lady, she lived in Miami where she met her husband and they had a kid. Her husband is the son of two English parents and did not speak any Spanish when they met, she did not speak any English when they met and she learned English from a dictionary (How, I have no idea). Her son, according to her, looks just like Vin Disel, a fact that she kept telling me and told me she had to show me a picture of him which unfortunately she did not.
So after hearing much about this women’s life she began to talk about how she is the head of the parents association at the school and she does not have any children at the school. She told us how much trouble she has with getting parents to participate, a fact that was illustrated by only two parents showing up to the cleanup day and leaving after an hour of “work.” Her take on the situation is that many of the people of the community feel as though they are poor and that they cannot help out in any way, a far too common excuse that I feel is used the world over. For some reason, people do not really seem to understand that you do not have to have any money to help serve your fellow brother and sister. Her theory on this troubling problem, and I would tend to agree with at this point, is that the Honduran people (and for that matter most of Latin America) have come to the point where they expect to be given things. For so many years now people have been coming to Latin America and providing support and aid to these people only they have been providing the wrong type of support and aid. In providing mostly monetary support to these people for so many years they have actually done the opposite of their intent and actually hurt the people more than they have helped.
So much of world aid in the past was done with the theory of give them money, that is all they need. The fact of the matter is that more than anything these people need education; I know it is cliché but give a man a fish and you feed him for a day, teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime. It is scary how well that applies to development work and even scarier to think about how little it is actually applied to the field of development. Why is it that people find it so hard to give up their time and services in today’s world and would rather give up some money instead? It seems almost paradoxical since we live in such a materialist and commercial driven world but it seems that time is more important than money. Until we begin to realize as a world community that we cannot solve development issues by throwing money at it, just like almost all problems are never fixed by throwing money at it. We need to realize that the real way to do development work is by becoming part of the community, education the community, and most importantly helping the community help themselves. In any given community, there are so many untapped resources, all it takes is someone who can point these people in the right direction, and most importantly show them that they can in fact develop their own community, using their own resources, and their own people. Human development is just that, development of humans, not of buildings or physical structures and until begin to put money into developing humans I am afraid that we will continue to deal with many of the same issues that we are dealing with today.
P.S. new pictures:
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